Is it too late?
I am terrified at the prospect of Donald Trump returning to the White House. I am so frustrated that our judicial system has not been able to hold him accountable and actually bring him to trial so he can be judged and found guilty of the crimes we know he committed. Having him on record asking an election official to find votes for him; seeing photographs of highly classified documents unsecured and improperly taken to a private residence; and all the actions and inactions related to the January 6 insurrection — surely an impartial judicial process would lead to multiple convictions. But still, there he is, enabled by Republican legislators and activists who either don’t understand or don’t care about the idea of handing power to a man who has repeatedly demonstrated that he is only out for himself, that he doesn’t respect the rule of law, and that he has no regard to the public good.
I could go on, but that’s not the point of this blog post. The point of this blog post is to explore what can be done, now, before it is too late.
For the record: I know Joe Biden is an imperfect candidate on the other side. I am horrified by what is happening in Gaza and the apparent inability or unwillingness of the administration to use the leverage we have to bring an end to the violence. I also know that Donald Trump would be even more pro-Netanyahu and anti-Palestine. I also see an amazing record of Biden administration accomplishments, despite the dysfunction in Congress, of using the power of the federal government for the benefit of communities around the country, making us safer, healthier, and more productive. The economy is strong, and moving in the right direction.
Call me naive, but I still believe that people hold power. All the elected officials we disdain were put there as a result of elections – the folks who voted and those who stayed home are responsible for the Mike Johnsons and the Jim Jordans and the Matt Gaetz’s of the world. If someone else had gotten more votes, that someone else would now be in those offices. There are obstacles to overcome, starting with how we fund our elections, but those obstacles can be removed with the right people in power.
It is not a new idea. But it matters now more than ever. WE THE PEOPLE hold the power. We can run for office, we can educate ourselves about who is running for office at every level – school boards, local government, all the way up the chain. We can get involved in political party bureaucracy and try to influence the choices of who runs and who gets funding and other types of support.
There may not be many Republicans who read this blog, but I wish there were more courageous Republicans who would work to take back the reins of their party. It would be good for the country to have a diversity of viewpoints within the fundamental framework of our constitutional democracy. How can we engage and empower all eligible voters to have their views and values represented and their rights protected? We need to offer more choices across the political spectrum. I’m not anti-Republican as I used to understand the Republican Party. I disagreed with many of their positions, but as President Biden said in the State of the Union address, “you can’t love your country only when you win.” I’m proud to have been a civil servant in both Democratic and Republican administrations in my years in Washington.
In my four years on the Encinitas City Council, I won some and lost some, and that’s how it should be. Not every idea is a winner, and honest debate, open-minded listening, and mutual trust can often lead to a better outcome. But I fear the current political establishment lacks all three of those needs – there is dishonesty and intentional disregard of facts; there is more posturing than listening; and there is a deep lack of trust.
What to do? It takes leadership and time to move us into more productive waters. We first need to do everything possible to make voting safe and secure; to support and protect election officials who are essential in performing this sacred duty. Then we need to encourage and support good candidates from both parties who demonstrate integrity and a commitment to serve for the common good, not for personal power.
Help register people to vote. Offer to work at voting centers. Join a civic organization and learn about the role of different offices and work to elect people you trust. Donate money to candidates and organizations that are working to promote your views and values. Among other things, I have written over 3000 postcards to voters across the country in elections at all levels of government to encourage them to vote. It is vital to VOTE in every election you are eligible for. You vote is your voice. It matters. For the sake of my granddaughter, I have to believe it’s not too late!
I slightly modified this quote from Robert F. Kennedy (not junior) to be more inclusive. He said, “Few will have the greatness to bend history itself, but each of us can work to change a small portion of events. It is from numberless diverse acts of courage and belief that human history is shaped. Each time a person stands up for an ideal, or acts to improve the lot of others, or strikes out against injustice, they send forth a tiny ripple of hope, and crossing each other from a million different centers of energy and daring those ripples build a current which can sweep down the mightiest walls of oppression and resistance.”
The service featured a talk by the leader of a local social service agency that supports victims of domestic violence, homelessness, and food insecurity. We talked about how this leader, and front-line social service workers in general, sustain their mental, physical, and spiritual health while working every day with people who are struggling, and the role that faith plays.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.”
Wendell Berry said, “The old and honorable idea of ‘vocation’ is simply that we each are called, by God, or by our gifts, or by our preference, to a kind of good work for which we are particularly fitted.”
And the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said, “No work is insignificant. All labor that uplifts humanity has dignity and importance and should be undertaken with painstaking excellence.”
I just spent a lovely week at a health resort in Tecate, Mexico, with 50 or 60 other guests. One of the people I met early in the week was a recently first-time elected official I’ll call Serena. We bonded/commiserated over the privilege and challenge of public service and shared some of the high and low points in our political journeys.
When I revealed that I had been elected to public office and served for four years, or when Serena shared her job title, people were very interested, very concerned about the state of our democracy, and very appreciative of our having stepped up to run for office. But most were not at all engaged themselves, other than keeping up with the news. While it has been more than a decade since I was elected, and I have done many other things since then, this piece of my resume seemed of most interest. And I still feel the need and desire to continue advocating for greater civic engagement from everyone. My new friend and I probably said to someone at every single meal, or to the whole table if they were listening, that they should get involved, run for office, volunteer for a commission, or at least actively support good candidates, including after they get elected.
Another rule is to have each other’s back. If a scene is floundering, someone else can step in and support the storyline, or redirect it so it works. In public office, this is also essential. Most people only speak out when they’re unhappy about a situation. They write angry letters to the editor or post comments on social media or just gripe to their friends. That’s ok, but it’s also important to acknowledge what is going well. Let an elected official know that you appreciate their vote on that issue you care about. Write an op-ed supporting your local government when they fix a problem. If there is unfair criticism in a community paper or public social media site, chime in and set the record straight, or at least offer a different point of view.
In fact, if this website designer specialized in messaging that reflected her conservative evangelical “Christian” views, she would be an unlikely choice for a same-sex couple seeking a wedding website. And in fact, the case was basically made up. The plaintiff had not started her website business nor turned down any same-sex clients. Nobody was trying to force her to offer messages she disagreed with. All she would have been required to do, before this ruling, was to offer whatever business she was in to anyone who chose to hire her. So if she only offered websites strewn with messages about love between a man and a woman, and only had designs that showed heterosexual couples, no existing law would have required her to change her artistic offerings. Clearly the Supreme Court majority was just looking for an excuse to undo existing precedent about nondiscrimination in public accommodations. So sad, so unnecessary.
I am glad to see challenges to abortion restrictions based on Jewish teachings, and I was amused when parents in Utah objected to the Bible being in school libraries because it contained lewd and violent content that violated restrictions intended to ban books with more progressive content. [That decision was quickly reversed after parent protests … hypocrisy is alive and thriving …]
But all of this is a huge waste of time and money, to say nothing of the suffering of people who just want to live their lives, get an education, plan a wedding, and read books of their choice. We don’t live in a zero-sum game, despite many folks acting like we do. Helping those in need does not diminish the rest of us – it makes all of us better. Making books available that represent the diversity of our society helps everyone feel seen and respected. Parents still get to choose what books their young children check out, and they can choose whether or not to bring their children to a drag show.
So I return to my main message, my perpetual message: we get the kind of government and the kind of society that we choose, either by our action or our inaction. If you think these issues are important, please get involved. Find out who’s on your local school board and work to elect those who support your values. Get involved in local, state, and national campaigns. Contact current elected officials, and work to get good people into office. We can change course. We can make reforms to the Supreme Court like term limits, and we can do better if we work together.
In their new book, “From Prosperity to Partner: Women’s Progress and Political Resistance,” authors Sheila Kennedy and Morton Marcus provide some important historical perspective.
The Library of Congress and the National African American History Museum represent the complicated history, culture, and challenges of our nation. The Library of Congress is the world’s largest library with more than 173 million items including books, recordings, photographs, maps, sheet music, and manuscripts. The majestic building is filled with statues, murals, and quotations. Established in 1800, it was described as a library of “such books as may be necessary for the use of Congress.” The initial modest collection burned in the War of 1812. 
Fourteen avenues to the west, the National African American History Museum (NAAHM) rises on the mall, design inspired by an African crown. It took over 100 years from when the idea for such a museum was first presented until the official opening. I have great appreciation for those who persisted and made it happen. It is a must-see for anyone visiting Washington, and visiting Washington is a must-do for everyone. 
While we admire Thomas Jefferson for so much in our history, and named the main Library of Congress building after him, in addition to his stately memorial on the Tidal Basin, the NAAHM shows Jefferson in front of a pile of bricks, each with the name of one of the enslaved people at Monticello. The museum has four floors dedicated to the history of slavery, and it is brutal and blunt. I was pleased to see a delegation of public safety leaders (police and fire chiefs and senior staff) from a nearby Maryland county touring the museum with a Black tour guide. This is important history for us all to understand.
The history section continues to the present, documenting scholars, soldiers, educators, politicians, and other Black leaders, as well as the struggles they endured. There is a lunch counter where visitors can consider choices made by civil rights activists. 
When you exit the history section, the museum offers a “contemplation courtyard” which I felt much need for as I was overwhelmed by emotion.
There were plenty of Black families sharing their heritage with their children. I was proud to see two handsome Black women in full US Army dress blue uniforms, both sporting many ribbons and decorations that I presume mean they have been successful in their military careers. I’m conflicted about all the corporate donor recognition plaques. It’s wonderful that this museum exists and it takes money to make that happen. So good for these corporations for donating some. Again, I fear this is a bit of window dressing, and wonder how many executives have really taken in the history in this place, and taken action to dismantle racism in their organizations and those where they have influence.
I lived in the Washington, DC area for 25 years, but this week is the first time I’ve been here purely as a tourist, visiting with a California friend who wanted to see the famous cherry blossoms. Washington definitely delivered. We didn’t just see cherry trees. We saw the product of generations of leaders, patriots, architects, historians, scholars, philanthropists, and ordinary citizens. And I felt overwhelmed with conflicting emotions, including pride, gratitude, disgust, anger, and shame.
There were a few indigenous women in our tour group, and I noticed they were standing in front of a painting called “
On the steps of the Capitol, as we were leaving, we saw a gathering of Democratic representatives calling for action on gun violence. I cheered them on, but sadly, those who are blocking sensible regulations, like reinstating the ban on assault weapons, refuse to listen. The tour hustled us past the Speaker’s office. It was clear how easy it was for the January 6 thugs to invade it. There were security people outside the door when we passed.
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I paid my respects to Jimmy Carter, and Barack and Michelle Obama’s official portraits. I appreciated a large portrait of the first four female Supreme Court justices, as well as many galleries devoted to artists who represent a very broad spectrum of our diverse society.
The highlight of our first day was an evening tour of the monuments. And the highlight of the highlights was the 
I learned in school that our system of government is based on the idea that we grant power through our electoral system. Every citizen is entitled to vote for the candidates that best represent that voter’s preferences, and the candidates who earn the most votes are entrusted with certain powers according to the office to which they were elected. In the legislative bodies, whether a local city council or the US Senate, laws are enacted and policies adopted based on majority rule – the ideas that have the support of the majority of elected officials in that body become part of our societal and legal framework. When I was on the city council in my town, I could vote on budgets and zoning changes and capital investments within the limits of my city. I did not have the authority to intervene in school board, county, state, or national level issues other than expressing support or opposition. The power to act at those levels of government were reserved to the people elected to those offices.
It is hard work. It is dangerous work. But I refuse to accept that we have to keep giving power to people who consistently block sensible gun safety measures, like a ban on assault-style weapons and large ammunition sales and universal background checks. This is not what the people want. We know that most people want better gun safety. Nobody wants to fear sending their children to school. The majority see the folly of expecting teachers to take on police responsibilities when we have seen even trained police officers failing to protect school children from armed shooters.
It’s tax time, and I think we need to understand that our tax payments are an investment in a well-run public sector (some of which operates well today, and some of which is in need of significant reform). Without an effective government, we would not have measurement standards, for example. I could claim that my package weighs a pound whether or not it conformed to an official definition of a pound, and you, as a consumer, would have no way of knowing. You could not enforce a contract without a court system to hold signatories accountable. I could make a competing product using your corporate name and logo if there were no trademark protections. All of these things matter.
If we only apply the laws that we like, and if we spew lies and make threats against the legal system when they hold people accountable who we want to protect, we damage our whole society. We know there are imperfections everywhere. We know that systemic bias exists. It has been well documented. We need better education and systemic reforms that are based in reality – not imaginary problems created by space lasers or dead people. Everyone’s rights deserve to be equally protected. There is much work that is needed. Violence is not the answer.
It’s December 26. The eight days of Hanukkah have passed, it’s one day after Christmas and I wonder what it all means. As we get older and the prospect of grandchildren fades ever more, I wonder what it means and why I work so hard to find special ways to mark the day. I understand that devoutly religious people find spiritual meaning in the holidays. For me, the supposed birth date of Jesus and the miracle of oil lasting longer than expected hold no more spiritual significance than any other days of the year.
I can find joy in some elements of what we, as a society, have made of this time of year – I like gathering with friends and family, I like sharing meals and exchanging gifts (within reason), and I like reaching out and giving to others who are less fortunate. I don’t like the pressure and the expectations created by our consumerist economy. We are trying to have fewer things and to shed as much as possible, and the same is true for many friends. My husband is also paralyzed by the stress of choosing gifts – afraid he might not pick the right thing, so this year I told him exactly what I wanted, where to buy it, and gave him a coupon for 25% off (yes, it was from Bed, Bath and Beyond.) Instead of me buying it for myself, I gave him the satisfaction of knowing he got just the right thing. That was a win-win for us. For children and those without the means to just buy what they need or want, Christmas can be that opportunity for getting something otherwise unobtainable as a gift, and that’s great. It just doesn’t apply to us. Our adult daughters got a hand-painted card and some cash and they all seemed happy.
So what really matters? Do we need commercialized holidays to remind us to call loved ones and offer help to struggling neighbors? On Sunday (Christmas) morning, my husband and I took a walk. We went to a nearby shopping center (I think he was hoping the Starbucks was open) and the place was completely deserted except for one maintenance person emptying trash cans. So if Christmas did anything noble, it was to force people to stop buying stuff they don’t need and can’t afford, at least for one day. I got more appreciation from recipients of my little hand-painted cards than for the gifts they accompanied, and that’s great. I had more fun with the watercolors than the shopping.